Comments on: Yep, That Was A Date

by: Heather C.

Tue, 06 Nov 2007 17:53:30 +0000

Sounds like good fun. The chance to wear a pair of heels and flirt with woulda/coulda can go a long, long way. Yay for you and your level headed way of handling it all.

by: landismom

Mon, 05 Nov 2007 02:47:34 +0000

Wow! Sounds like an exciting development.

But what are the ramifications for Facebook Guy?

by: Kirsten

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 21:15:06 +0000

He’s probably right. It was a total fluke last time, anyway. But I’ll play. Help me out…give me the city at least. If it’s not in in your city, I don’t have a chance. In your city, well, it’s a fairly static scene and I’ve only been gone two years.

[ed. note: Kirs, I edited your comment. While it’s true that I’m using my own name and everything now, and I maintain that the crazies I know scare me far more than the somewhat mythical internet crazies, I’m still not quite comfortable putting my city out there. Most people think I live in TO, and I’m ok with that.]

by: thordora

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 20:27:17 +0000

Second chances are wonderful. Take the time to savour those flutters.

by: Karen Rani

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 14:32:56 +0000

I’m so glad you had fun! Totally cheering for you over here!

by: Leslie

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 05:39:04 +0000

I wish I could put myself in your shoes with the whole second chances thing. I’ve been married 5 years and have 2 toddlers, so I miss the butterflies. I really miss the butterflies sometimes. But mostly, I love being with a man who knows what I’m thinking (and what I’m going to order for dinner) before I do

by: Lady M

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 05:02:52 +0000

Cheers to your second first date!

I can imagine that the interval of years has given you time to become more “you” and know what you want or need in a relationship. I certainly have better self-knowledge now that I did in my twenties.

by: Eden

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 04:21:37 +0000

Hawk’s & my first date was February 1988. Our second date was September 1995. We call it second date b/c the first one didn’t count b/c he tried to round third. The main difference was more that on the second date, he was more successful.

by: bubandpie

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 02:17:50 +0000

In an L.M. Montgomery book, this kind of relationship is referred to as “warming up the cold soup.” A very vivid expression, I always thought, and not a very appealing one. But statistically, those unfinished-business relationships have a very high probability of success.

by: dixie

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 01:21:52 +0000

Yah,what sweetypi said. I really hope you enjoyed yourself. You deserve it!